It is going to repel anyone from wanting to attack me coz I look like someone you don’t want to mess with.
Since men are usually more aggressive and stronger, the general consensus is that they should be better at defending themselves. If women were more like men and they would become better at defending themselves right?
When it comes down to it, a lot of men create the “self defense” situations they find themselves “stuck in”… how helpful is that to your safety!?! Emulating social dominance monkey dance bullshit violence that men face is night and day different than the type of violence most women face, and the furthest thing from proper self defense. Why train to act like something/ someone you will never be. Instead learn to use what you have and make it better, the best it can be. Embrace who you are, the good, the bad, the strength, the weaknesses and learn to use it to your advantage.
I totally agree that a certain amount of aggressiveness is much better than meekness when it comes to self defense. But “being on PMS”, acting like a “bitch” only works on certain types of social violence. Acting like a bitch may actually make you a more likely target for more serious types of violence. Being emotional is a poor place to start from to defend yourself.
It prevents you from having a clear, cool level head. It is like walking around with blinders on, only seeing what you want to see not what is really happening. When it’s time to defend yourself, the last thing you need is blinders
Being a bitch will never be as strong as having true knowledge. Knowledge gained through quality training and life experience creates competence. Competence breeds confidence. Actual hard earned confidence sends off much better “don’t mess with me” signals than pretending to be a bitch ever could, and its real, not poser bullshit.